Real people, actually here
The problem with most feederism apps isn't the app — it's the empty inbox. Our Discord is active, with feeders, feedees, switches, and admirers talking every day.
Feeders & feedees · one community
Looking for a feederism app?
The old feeder/feedee apps went quiet, and the ones that are left rarely feel safe. Here's the alternative: a real, moderated, international feederism community — free, on Discord, and active today.
You don't need another app. You need people.
Dating apps are only as good as who's on them — and most feederism apps are empty, abandoned, or unmoderated. A living community solves that: real conversations, actual safety, and far more than a swipe deck.
Why a community beats an app
Moderated & consent-first
No unmoderated free-for-all. Report and block tools, verified members, and a safe, kink-positive space where boundaries come first.
Free — no paywall
No pay-to-message, no premium tier to actually talk to someone. Joining the community is completely free.
More than dating
Date, make friends, join events, and create and share together — the community, the games, and (soon) voice and an interactive map, all in one place.
The search is over.
Join the Discord and meet feeders and feedees who are actually here — free, safe, and worldwide.
Join the community on DiscordQuestions
Feederism apps, honestly.
Is there a feederism dating app?
A few have existed, and some have faded or aren't well moderated. The most active home for feeders and feedees today is our community on Discord — free to join, with nothing to install beyond Discord itself.
What about Feabie or other feederism apps?
Whatever you've tried, you're welcome here. We focus on being a safe, moderated, free, international community rather than on comparisons — come as you are.
Do I need to download an app?
Just Discord, which is free and runs in your browser, on your phone, and on desktop. There's no separate app to install.
Is it free?
Yes — joining the community and the Discord is completely free, with no paywall to message people.
Is it safe and 18+?
The community is adults only (18+), actively moderated, and consent-first. Any location features that come later will be opt-in and approximate only.
Here to date? See the dating & community page or play the games.