Feederism lives or dies on communication and consent — between partners, and in how we talk here. A few things we hold to:
Consent is ongoing. Not a one-time yes. Checking in, talking about limits, and being free to change your mind are the whole game — and worth talking about openly.
Fantasy and reality aren't the same thing. Plenty of what's exciting in your head doesn't map neatly onto real life, and that's normal. This is a good place to untangle the difference without judgment.
Health matters, and we're harm-aware. Bodies are real, and so are the risks that can come with rapid weight change. We don't shame anyone for what they want — and we don't pretend health doesn't exist. If you're struggling with food, body image, or eating in a way that scares you, please also reach out to a professional. In a crisis, contact a local helpline or emergency services.
Your privacy is protected here. This is a sexuality-adjacent space, so we keep what we collect to a minimum and never expose member activity publicly.
If any of this stirs something up, the Support & Vent space is exactly for that. You're not alone in it.
