We keep the rules simple, because the spirit matters more than the letter: be an adult, be kind, and look after each other. Here's what that means in practice.
Yes, please:
- Speak honestly, from your own experience.
- Assume good faith. People arrive at different stages and comfort levels.
- Respect privacy — yours and everyone else's. What's shared here stays here.
Hard lines (these keep everyone safe):
- 18+ only. An adults-only space, full stop.
- No minors in any context. Zero tolerance, and illegal content is reported.
- Consent always. Nothing celebrating coercion, force, or anyone who hasn't agreed.
- No harassment, hate, or doxxing. Disagree kindly; never attack the person.
- Be mindful around health. This community is harm-aware — we don't promote disordered eating or unsafe practices. More in the Consent & Safety thread.
- Text only. No images, media, or links.
If something's wrong: flag the post, or email clair@feederism.org. Reports are confidential.
Breaking a hard line can mean a removed post, a warning, or a removed account, depending on severity. We'd much rather help you stay than show you out — so if you're unsure about something, just ask.
